Having a baby that is premature often affects the entire family, from siblings and grandparents to aunts, uncles and close friends. It can be a very emotional time.

Often, the parents are beseiged with questions about what is happening, how did it happen or why did this premature birth happen.

The best thing family and friends can offer to parents of a premature baby is comfort and emotional support.

Professionals can help you cope as well and may suggest support groups.

Talk to the social worker in the NICU if you are feeling completely overwhelmed and need consoling.